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GREAT LOVEMAKING

Only Grown-ups Need Apply: The Secret to Great Lovemaking
 
I hat would a thirty-five-year-old say is the key to great lovemaking? Perhaps they would desire some powerful technique or to learn unique skills or develop a gymnast's body to make them stand out as a lover. Maturity knows better! These aren't prime bodies, and gymnastic moves aren't necessary. If there were a magic technique, we would already have discovered it. No, we know that lovemaking builds on who we are as a person and the intimate connection we have developed with our lover. The following formula sums it up:

Great Lovemaking = A Whole Grown-up Person + A Healthy Intimate Relationship

Remember our insistence on shifting the paradigm as we create new attitudes? If we define "great lovemaking" as fantastic intercourse and wild orgasms based on an always-functioning body (penis and vagina), we are sunk. But that doesn't fit God's definition either. Go back to the beginning of time and think through why the Almighty created sex in the first place. God is Love, and humans are created in His very image to love. Nowhere is this more clearly revealed than through God's grand metaphor for intimacy—sexuality.
God created sexuality to reveal Himself and the value He places on intimate relating. He needed His human creation to understand what love is all about. "So God created man in His own image; in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them" (Gen. 1:27 NKjv). So marriage and great lovemaking foster intimacy and being "naked and unashamed." It transcends bodies, intercourse, and orgasms to the very soul of deep connection. How does this meaningful sex happen? Why can someone who is sixty better appreciate great lovemaking?

A WHOLE GROWN-UP PERSON
It's scary to realize that being a great lover depends on our personal maturity and growth. Neither our mate nor our chronological age can make us a grown-up. We are individually responsible for our character development and self-acceptance. In a critical manner, it takes two whole people to create a whole relationship. The following traits are indispensable in becoming an enjoyable, self-assured, grown-up lover.
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